God made sex to be pleasurable. Some settle for pain.
A neighbor of Elaine Riddick settled for pain. He raped Elaine Riddick.
Pleasure and friendship are supposed to go together in God's design. A wife/lover says about her husband/lover in Song of Solomon 5:16 Amplified Bible, "His voice and speech are exceedingly sweet; yes, he is altogether lovely [the whole of him delights and is precious]. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem!"
A good, loving friend speaks well and seeks to do good deeds. A friend is faithful shutting the door of opportunity to evil. Elaine Riddick's unloving, unfriendly neighbor opened the door to personal and public pain and evil. Racists, sexists, elitists, etc. like Wallace Kuralt (Read more here: http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2013/08/08/4223519/alice-mae-jackson-and-eugenics.html#.UjHJM3_mViM#storylink=cpy,) Clarence Gamble, MD, (Maafa 21 video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=02t3Wqg-4Iw) and Margaret Sanger of Planned Parenthood (Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HsrOPDdbTzM) are eager to walk through doors opened to evil.
After Elaine Riddick was raped at the age of 13, North Carolina state sterilized her while she was giving birth to her son. Watch this video of a CNN interview in which Elaine Riddick says about her North Carolina state-sponsored forced sterilization "Later on because of my body was traumatized so severely I ended up having to have a total hysterectomy. But prior to that before I had the hysterectomy most of my life was I had to live in a lot of pain, hemorrhaging .... When I got my monthly cycle ... it felt like someone had taken a knife and was gutting me .... My menstrual cycle ... wasn't normal because it lasted ... 12 to 15 days at a time, and this happened from the time ... after I had my son from the time I was 14 until I got into my 40s when I eventually did have to have a total hysterectomy" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzYQLHHCxq8.
Some may think, "Well, I'm not a rapist." Are you engaging in partner sex outside of marriage? If yes, you are also opening the door to pain and evil.
Looking for love Hannah Rose landed in uncommitted sexual relationships, abortion at Planned Parenthood and miscarriage. She writes in her September 2, 2013, http://www.roseandherlily.com/ blog post "Sometimes it's so hard to wrap my mind around it all... sometimes I am caught off guard with moments of grief, the grief of my loss of my two babies, as well as the loss of my innocence."
Many marriages are also not celebrating friendship and sex because of infidelity. Read my article "Sex, Lies and Education" at http://michelefjackson.blogspot.com/2013/04/sex-lies-and-education.html.
Infidelity comes in wide varieties. Read my article "Silent Rapes" at http://michelefjackson.blogspot.com/2013/04/silent-rapes.html.
While God does not will for us to have partner sex outside of marriage, He wills for us to enjoy sex inside of marriage. God does not want any of us to be afraid of sexuality and try to stomp it out. God created sexuality. What God creates is good, beautiful and excellent provided we participate in God's creation according to His design. God designed sex to bond marital couples. Sometimes sex leads to reproduction. Read my article "Fearless Sex" at http://michelefjackson.blogspot.com/2013/01/fearless-sex.html.
God is also the creator of human life no matter how life is conceived, and He wills for us to love people. Elaine Riddick said in a CNN interview about her son, Tony Riddick, "Someone asked me a question the other day. How do we get along? Do I have certain feelings towards him as far as you know reminding me that he was a product of rape. No, that's my son, and I love him very much, and he's a special gift from God. That's how I look at it." 1 John 4:18-20 Amplified Bible says, "There is no fear in love [dread does not exist], but full-grown (complete, perfect) love turns fear out of doors and expels every trace of terror! For fear brings with it the thought of punishment, and [so] he who is afraid has not reached the full maturity of love [is not yet grown into love’s complete perfection]. We love Him, because He first loved us. If anyone says, I love God, and hates (detests, abominates) his brother [in Christ], he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, Whom he has not seen."
Fear of people causes death by abortion and all kinds of other evil. The spirit of fear is behind China's one-child policy. In 1995, when Guo Yanling was eight months pregnant, she was forced to abort her son. In 1999, she was forcibly sterilized. In 2006, she was imprisoned for not being able to pay a fine for having more than one child. The Chinese government also refused to issue household registrations to her and to her husband, Du Yiliang's, three children without which they are unable to attend school or receive government benefits. Guo Yanling's and Du Yiliang's abortion, sterilization, educational and economic terror experience is typical in China. "Numerous forced-abortion tragedies occur in China every single day," says Pastor Bob Fu, president of ChinaAid Association. What isn't nearly as typical is that with ChinaAid’s help, Guo Yanling and Du Yiliang have been granted refugee status by the UN High Commission on Refugees. Read more about Guo Yanling, Du Yiliang and family at http://www.chinaaid.org/2013/03/with-chinaaid-help-two-victims-of-china.html. They also welcome notes of encouragement to Du Yiliang and Guo Yanling, requests for interviews and financial contributions to ChinaAid's Emergency Relief Fund.
Whether we live in China, North Carolina, other parts of America and other parts of the globe God loves us and desires for us to live well with great joy. God does not want us to be passive and refuse to participate in good deeds. Are you a victim of American state-sponsored sterilization? Don't let threats or pressure stop you from standing up for what's right. You are lovable to God, and God wants you to love yourself and other people. A Persian proverb says, "Opportunity should be grabbed." In North Carolina $10 million is to be split equally among those sterilized through the North Carolina Eugenics Board. Compensation claims must be filed by June 30, 2014, for victims to receive a one-time payment to be distributed June 30, 2015. North Carolina had a eugenics board from the 1930s through the 1970s through which social workers, family and others arranged for people to be sterilized. If you think you are one of the victims, you can ask the North Carolina Justice for Sterilization Victims Foundation to check the North Carolina Eugenic Board's records by completing and mailing them this form: http://www.sterilizationvictims.nc.gov/documents/FirstPartyVerificationform.pdf. Sometimes people are not able to speak up for themselves and need advocates. If you are not a victim, but are an advocate for a victim, you can ask the North Carolina Justice for Sterilization Victims Foundation to check the North Carolina Eugenic Board's records by completing and mailing them this form with required attachments: http://www.sterilizationvictims.nc.gov/documents/ThirdPartyVerificationform.pdf. These forms are verification and not a guarantee of compensation. In South Africa Desmond Tutu retired as archbishop to head the Truth and Reconciliation Commission that exposed many of the evils done under apartheid, so that evil may be stopped and good promoted. North Carolina is not the only American state that did state-sponsored sterilizations. Other states need to apologize to, financially compensate victims and erase all forms of "family planning" evil. If you have filed a verification form, please share your experience and inspire others. Write to:
Michele F. Jackson
P. O. Box 2106
Woodbridge, Virginia 22195
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